He Says, She Says - Let's Talk About Ideal Sex

I was invited to a talk organized by Pfizer and the topic is a bit taboo among us Asians. It's about how to be sexually satisfied for a couple, hence the title, "He Says, She Says - Let's Talk About Ideal Sex".

"According to the Pfizer’s Ideal Sex Survey 2011, Asian couples agreed overwhelmingly that quality of erection hardness and the ability to maintain an erection are the most important criteria in achieving an ideal sexual experience.

For the uninitiated, there is actually a measurement standard for erection hardness – the Erection Hardness Scale (EHS).

Since erection hardness is a fundamental component of erectile function, the availability of a simple parameter to measure erection hardness may prove useful in diagnosing the presence and severity of ED. The EHS is used to measure erection hardness during sexual intercourse. Grade 4 is the optimal erection hardness and it gives greater sexual satisfaction for both patients and partners. Doctors do use this tool for monitoring treatment outcomes. "

Prof. Dr. Ong Teng Aik and Prof. Dr. Low Wah Yun given their professional opinions.

Why some man cannot reach the optimum hardness? According to said Prof. Dr. Low Wah Yun, who is a professor of psychology at the Faculty of Medicine, University Malaya and with Prof. Dr. Ong Teng Aik, Associate Professor and Consultant Urologist with University Malaya Medical Centre, it is mostly because the man is not in good health rather than psychological factor. So, guys, if you can't get hard enough, it's time to consult the doctor because your "little brother" is telling you that you might have hypertension, high cholesterol, heart problem or any other lifestyle illness.

Besides the two profs, newly wed couple, Bangsar Babe and her hubby, Wei Jien were invited to gives their point of views from a normal couple side. What they emphasized is that communication between them is very important to find out what each other thinks is an ideal sex.

Also, guys, pre-mature ejaculation according to Dr. Ong is if one ejaculate in less than 30 seconds after penetration. He said, most men at most last about 5 minutes. So don't worry if you find yourself ejaculated after 4 or 5 minutes =P If you don't believe, then set your phone to a stop watch function and see how long you can last lol.

Hm...it's time for me to hit the gym then, high blood pressure and high cholesterol is sure not something to take into lightly because er... it might affect my hardness. =P